Monday, July 21, 2014

Our Nigerian Reception in Pictures

On July 12th, Daniel and I enjoyed a wonderful wedding reception in Jos, Nigeria at the Hill Station Hotel.

Daniel wearing the modern Nigerian groom wear. 

Dressed like the modern Nigerian bride! 
Daniel and I with his mum, Dr. Clara Iya

Both mum and dad!

The table decor 

Head table
The beautiful cake! All of the catering was done by Daniel's aunt.

Daniel and I making our entrance into the reception, escorted by a band of ladies who helped us dance our way down the red carpet aisle. 



Phil Andrew opened the reception in prayer

We sang some songs




Cutting the cake was a big part of the celebration. First there was a speech by Daniel's great aunt followed by a time of prayer. Then we were joined by Daniel's parents before there was a countdown for the cutting! At the end of the countdown, a big sparkler went off in front of the cake. I was not expecting it and it really surprised me!

We fed each other cake.

So did the parents of the groom =)

We also shared juice.

Then there was a time of dancing! All of the ladies in the room were asked to join me and Daniel on the dance floor.

They instructed me on a few dance moves.

Then the men joined the dance floor and a Nigerian tradition referred to as "spraying" commenced. It's when people come and spray us with money. 

Then we enjoyed some great food.



All of the beautiful decorations! My favorite color is orange and Daniel's favorite color is blue.

Then we had a time of speeches.
Words from the wise who had been married for over 50 years!

Daniel gave a word of thanks.

Daniel's dad also had a chance to speak.

Daniel and me with some close family and friends.

The wedding planner who did an amazing job! She is also a close family friend.
Daniel and I felt so honored by the awesome celebration. The whole event was a great taste (for me) of the rich Nigerian culture. We enjoyed the opportunity to celebrate with our family and friends in Nigeria!

Tuesday, July 15, 2014

Our Trip to Nigeria

Home. Whatever happens, it seems home always remains home. For me, this particular trip back was one of mixed emotions. It definitely was home sweet home to be at my childhood house again with all its fond memories. It was wonderful to see and spend time with my parents and family. It was fun to reconnect with old friends and everyone from church. It was delicious savoring my favorite Nigerian meals, all punctuated with familiar peppery spiciness. And it was exciting to watch the drama of this World Cup unfold and to support the Super Eagles from Nigeria.

Ah, home.


Scenery around Jos


The beautiful garden at the house



Road construction work going on just outside the compound


Having fun driving the "Keke Napep" around




But it also saddened my heart to see and experience the state of a country affected by so much turmoil. Many Nigerians, overwhelmed with years of relentless act of terror, rampant corruption, blatant lawlessness, and negligent disrepair, are settling into resignation and defeat. Is there hope for Nigeria? Will respite, peace, and true progress ever come?

For those living in volatile and insecure areas such as Jos, it seems that more and more are replacing their fear of attacks with a degree of callousness. People cannot sit and be paralyzed with fear forever. Life must go on, bombs or no bombs. And so, despite the insecurity, life does go on and people go about their daily business - almost as if everything were normal.

Jos itself has changed. It is not the same city that I grew up in, and not even the same city that I visited just two years ago. Yes, there are definitely signs here and there of development, but I get the sense that – overall – the change is not for the better.

Ah, home.


When traffic isn't going your way, just create another lane


Ahmadu Bello Way, downtown Jos


Street merchants set up, not so legally, in the median


The site of the recent Boko Haram bombing in Nyanya, just outside Abuja


I do have hope, however. It comes out of desperation and brokenness, but it is hope all the same. And this hope is in an unchanging God that is very present and at work in Nigeria, despite the circumstances. Christ is greater than any circumstance, and His work is evident in certain of His people’s lives and ministry.

People like my parents are examples of those living in Nigeria who are persevering in faith, by the grace of God. Many years ago, they chose to return to Nigeria instead of remaining in the UK, because they felt that was where God was calling them to be. They have been doing their part to make a difference and bring change to the nation ever since, through their work and ministry. More like them are out there, and these individuals realize that despite the daunting issues of the nation (and the sorrow and heartache they bring), change starts with a God-fearing individual doing what is right and what he or she has been called to do. Therein lies the only hope of my nation: Christ working in the heart of the individual Nigerian.

During our 18-day stay in Nigeria, the Lord blessed us with a chance to encourage his body at the church I grew up in, ECWA Plateau Church. We spoke for a short time during Sunday morning worship about the work God is doing through the ministry at GSF – and the response was tremendous. The body at EPC were encouraged and challenged by our testimony, and we have added  greatly to our prayer support. We too, were encouraged by the testimony of experienced missionaries and stories of other missionaries working around Africa under the ECWA missions branch, the Evangelical Missionary Society (EMS).


ECWA Plateau Church getting ready for Sunday worship


Corinne and I were also encouraged and blessed by a wedding reception that my parents planned and organized. Granted, it came 11 months into our marriage, but we believe that it was an event that glorified the Lord. The gospel was shared during the ceremony with several unbelievers in attendance. The event was an enjoyable experience of Naija culture as well. Nigerians really know how to celebrate! Corinne will be posting more pictures of our Nigerian reception later on this week. 




All in all, we are very grateful to God for our trip to Nigeria. We are grateful that, amid the bustling chaos of city life, we were able to have a restful time with family. We are thankful for the opportunity to encourage others through our testimony. And we are grateful for the encouragement in our work and ministry that we have received.

Here are some ways that you can be praying with us this week:

1) Despite the typical "excitement" (a.k.a. wahala) at the Abuja airport, we have just made it safely back to Uganda! Please praise God with us.

2) Thank God for an edifying trip and opportunities to share about the ministry at GSF.

3) Pray for Nigeria: that God would change the heart of Nigerians - especially the youth growing up in that kind of society, raise up leaders of integrity (upcoming 2015 election), expose and eradicate corruption, and give government wisdom and resources for dealing with Boko Haram.

4) Pray for Corinne and me as we jump back into full gear with our work at Good Shepherd's Fold.

Thank you for your continued prayer and support!